the whole “anger is poisonous and bad for u” mindset was created by people who didn’t want to deal w the justified anger directed at them by others
anger is powerful and important, anger is fuel, and only you determine whether or not your anger is good or bad for you
i found a website that sells really cheap transition starter kits and??? oh my god theyre so cheap you could get an undershirt binder, a packer and some packer underwear for like 20 bucks???
They also have dmab resources!